Then it hit me!
It took me a lot of years to figure this out, but I am now passing it on to you!
First of all , you do not need to look like a hunk to become successful with women. Of course the media and the society want to tell you different, but good-looks ain't that relevant in this game.
What matters is “Emotional Attraction”.
Why would we men instantly go to bed with any good looking woman without even actually knowing what she's like?
We men don't really care about a woman's personality the first time we see her. If she is good looking, then we would like to get to know her and wouldn' mind that much sleeping with her. But for women it is a big issue. Why?
Because attraction doesn't work the same way for women as it does for men! … it's twisted!
| Women will rate a man's Personality first (Confidence, Humor, ... ) before assessing his looks | |
| Men will rate a Woman by her Looks first (face, breasts, bum, legs, ...) before assessing her personality traits |
We men don't go out with the intention of meeting some nice and polite women. We like pretty girls with a great body, soft skin, a cute face and long legs - that's what we want! Everything else is only secondary for the moment!
You don't see yourself sayting to your friends: “Hey guys, how about if we go out tonight and meet some very polite and intelligent women with great personalities? How does that sound like?”
The funny thing is ... men don't do that, but women do!
Women do the exact opposite. In the back of her head lingers the thought of a nice, polite and sweet man that makes her laugh, is nice and respects her - a Prince Charming who sweeps them off their feet if you will.
That's why guys who are handsome have a "very hard time" getting women ... because as soon as they open their mouths they bore women to death and don't know which buttons to press. It's a common problem out there that relying on looks will never cut it with women. Period!
But that's only because women rate men first by attractive personality traits and THEN how they look like. Very attractive women will still go out with you if you have a beer belly as long as your personality is sexy and you know how the secret psychology of this dating game works.


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